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		<title>Christmas Video Gift for You</title>
		<link>http://blog.selfworks.net/2008/12/20/christmas-video-gift/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 11:11:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>selfworks</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christmas is a time when everyone&#8217;s busy, so I&#8217;ll keep this short and sweet. Your gift this year is a video with a slightly different take on Christmas and New Year, designed to be a bit of help, and hopefully spread some peace and good cheer, in a way that&#8217;s quick to access. It&#8217;s at: [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.selfworks.net&amp;blog=729485&amp;post=805&amp;subd=selfworks&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christmas is a time when everyone&#8217;s busy, so I&#8217;ll keep this short and sweet.</p>
<p>Your gift this year is a video with a slightly different take on Christmas and New Year, designed to be a bit of help, and hopefully spread some peace and good cheer, in a way that&#8217;s quick to access. It&#8217;s at:</p>
<p><a href="http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=WMAAgLetWf4">http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=WMAAgLetWf4</a></p>
<p>Hope it helps and that you have a wonderful Christmas&#8230;the blog will be back properly in the New Year.</p>
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		<title>This really, really, works!</title>
		<link>http://blog.selfworks.net/2007/05/08/this-really-really-works/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2007 15:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while ago, I mentioned I was trying out the &#8220;Barefoot Doctor&#8217;s Guide to Health, Wealth, Happiness and Good Looks&#8221; and was impressed. That was before I had finished the 30 day usage of the system he recommends. Now that that&#8217;s over, I&#8217;m absolutely blown away. Specific benefits Specifically, it&#8217;s given me the confidence and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.selfworks.net&amp;blog=729485&amp;post=428&amp;subd=selfworks&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A while ago, I mentioned I was trying out the &#8220;Barefoot Doctor&#8217;s Guide to Health, Wealth, Happiness and Good Looks&#8221; and was impressed.</p>
<p>That was before I had finished the 30 day usage of the system he recommends.</p>
<p>Now that that&#8217;s over, I&#8217;m absolutely blown away.</p>
<p><strong>Specific benefits</strong></p>
<p>Specifically, it&#8217;s given me the confidence and courage to pursue bigger, bolder new projects that I&#8217;d always thought about, but shied away from. I feel fitter, healthier, and more energetic, and I&#8217;m getting at least 20% more done each day, whilst feeling more confident.</p>
<p>New opportunities have poured in, and all in all, it feels like a quantum leap forward. All from some daily breathing exercises and visualisations.</p>
<p>Never one to re-invent the wheel, it&#8217;s probably best just to give you the benefit of the feedback I just sent to the CD set&#8217;s makers:</p>
<p><strong>Feedback to the set&#8217;s author</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Do this for 30 days and you will find your Health, Wealth, Happiness and good looks increase&#8221; said the Barefoot Doctor.<br />&#8220;Yeh, right,&#8221; I thought. But I did it anyway, even though it seemed a bit far-fetched that any audio programme, however good, could work quite that well. (I try out a lot of these things, and results are usually pretty mixed).<br />30 days later, and I really *have* experienced a visible, measurable boost in each of the promised areas&#8230;and learnt some fascinating, and refreshingly little-known personal development ideas along the way.<br />Many thanks Barefoot Doctor-this is a fabulous CD set, and does exactly what it promises.&#8221;</em><br /><em></em><br />I could also have added, <em>&#8220;It&#8217;s really nice to come across a set that&#8217;s so</em> <em>down-to-earth, and doesn&#8217;t take itself too seriously.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>And as you&#8217;ll know if you read this blog often, I don&#8217;t often fall in love with a product so comprehensively.</p>
<p><strong>Any gripes?</strong></p>
<p>Yes, one. Whilst the price (GBP 69.95) is well worth it for getting the kind of results I&#8217;m talking about, obviously there are no guarantees that one person&#8217;s experience will be the same as another. And, prior to experiencing it,  it&#8217;s certainly a price that will give many cause for a good hard swallow and thoughts of scouring Ebay for the set, secondhand. (I&#8217;ve done it myself, many a time).</p>
<p> In fairness though, you don&#8217;t have to pay for it before you&#8217;ve listened and it does come on 30 days&#8217; approval.</p>
<p>In any event, if you&#8217;re looking to invest in a program to help you, &#8220;get to the next level&#8221; or &#8220;break through a barrier I can&#8217;t explain&#8221; then this could be an excellent choice.</p>
<p>If this grabs you, you&#8217;ll find it at the link below (not an affiliate link, though to be honest, it&#8217;s such a fine resource, I&#8217;d be more than happy to promote it without hesitation)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nightingale.com/p~Product~Urban_Warriors_Guide.asp">http://www.nightingale.com/p~Product~Urban_Warriors_Guide.asp</a></p>
<p>Hope this helps</p>
<p>More soon</p>
<p>Clare</p>
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		<title>Positive psychology? A huge thumbs up!</title>
		<link>http://blog.selfworks.net/2007/03/01/positive-psychology-a-huge-thumbs-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>selfworks</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During the &#8220;enforced website absence&#8221; see above, it actually became pretty stressful to be on the computer (think checkingto see if the site was back up every half hour or so). So, asyou can imagine, I soon decided that activities away from the computer were better&#8230;and therefore got to read an absolute gem of a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.selfworks.net&amp;blog=729485&amp;post=401&amp;subd=selfworks&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During the &#8220;enforced website absence&#8221; see above, it actually became pretty stressful to be on the computer (think checkingto see if the site was back up every half hour or so).</p>
<p>So, asyou can imagine, I soon decided that activities away from the computer were better&#8230;and therefore got to read an absolute gem of a book.</p>
<p>Unlke a lot of recommendations <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.co.uk%2FPositive-Psychology-Nutshell-Introduction-Functioning%2Fdp%2F0954838785%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26qid%3D1172776206%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=selfworks&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1634&amp;creative=6738">Positive Psychology in a Nutshell</a><img style="border-right:medium none;border-top:medium none;border-left:medium none;border-bottom:medium none;margin:0;" height="1" alt="" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.co.uk/e/ir?t=selfworks&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=2" width="1" border="0" /> by Dr Ilona Boniwell (what an apt name) <em>is</em> a print book. But it&#8217;s such an entertaining  readable, yet lucid, intelligent,useful and plain fascinating summary that I can only recommend it utterly to anyone who wants to be happy (or help others to do the same).</p>
<p>You could argue that the book simply explains the light that psychological methods are shedding on topics which the self-growth movement has been pretty sure about for years. But what light! For example, she shows why you need a ratio of positive to negative thoughts of at least 3:1 in order to be happy&#8230;and also talks about the ratio above which positive thoughts can have an opposite effect, and why!</p>
<p>For just over a fiver, this concise little book is a great find,  and a bargain.</p>
<p>(And, clearly, it&#8217;ll also help keep you calm if your website crashes <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Hope it helps.</p>
<p>More soon</p>
<p>Clare</p>
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		<title>What Makes You Happy?</title>
		<link>http://blog.selfworks.net/2007/01/23/what-makes-you-happy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2007 15:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Travelling back to London yesterday, on a long car journey, one thing became clear. According to each of the various radio stations that came through on the trip, yesterday was &#8220;Blue Monday.&#8221; Apparently, it&#8217;s so-called because it&#8217;s the day in the year when people are most likely to be depressed. And the reason I know [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.selfworks.net&amp;blog=729485&amp;post=385&amp;subd=selfworks&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Travelling back to London yesterday, on a <em>long</em> car journey, one thing became clear.</p>
<p>According to each of the various radio stations that came through on the trip, yesterday was &#8220;Blue Monday.&#8221; Apparently, it&#8217;s so-called because it&#8217;s the day in the year when people are most likely to be depressed.</p>
<p>And the reason I know this is because each station outlined the gory details of such potential depression in  considerable depth. Except one.</p>
<p>Now, obviously, I won&#8217;t be compounding the issue by repeating the depression details. But I was so inspired by the station that decided to buck the trend and do things differently, that this post is a homage to that decision, and an attempt to spread its cheer around the internet as well.</p>
<p><strong>The idea</strong></p>
<p>The gist of the cheery progamme&#8217;s approach was, &#8220;To counteract the blues, let us know what makes you happy&#8221;. Great stuff-especially as most of that which came back were the small but priceless things that make up life for most of us.</p>
<p>Given the nature of the internet this can go one stage further. So, please let someone else know what makes you happy, and encourage them to think what makes <em>them </em>happy<em>,</em> and to pass on both the concept and the happiness to someone else.</p>
<p>The &#8220;someone else&#8221; could be general, (like posting a comment here, or anywhere else) or just a chat with your nearest and dearest. The key points are the happiness, and the &#8220;pass-it-on&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Starting it off</strong></p>
<p>So to start it off, off the top of my head, some things that make me happy are:</p>
<p>-Snuggling under a duvet<br />-Coming into a warm house from the cold outside.<br />-Seeing other people smile<br />-Chocolate pudding<br />-Watching squirrels (and other wildlife)</p>
<p>NB. You don&#8217;t need five things&#8230;Just think of something, pass it on, and enjoy!</p>
<p>More soon</p>
<p>Clare</p>
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